
I guess I was raised in the old school style where kids used simple manners (please, thank you, yes ma'am and I'm sorry). I feel like each person in the household pitching in on chores allows us to live in a clean home where company can visit anytime as well as teach valuable life lesson for the future where mom no longer does their laundry, washes their dishes, or finds their shoes. I know that the word "no" doesn't win me popularity points but teaches my children 1) I'm in control and 2) if they want it bad enough, they should work for it and 3) we don't always get what we want and that's ok; life doesn't end with the word "no".
This is where I come to terms, however, with the statement - My house, my rules. I do pray though that these little lesson we try to instill in our home are taken out of it in some little way and as the years pass they will want to embrace the values we are trying to teach.